Photo courtesy of Dean Orewiler Portrait Art. Thank you, Dean! Notice Paul's birth year is incorrect. He was born in 1926. I've not found anyone who knows why the tombstone is incorrect. But on both his birth certificate and his death certificate, the year of birth is given as 1926.
What you can't tell from this photo (but that I can from the original sent to me) is the other tombstone is for the Lynde family as well. The three names (from left to right) are Cordy (Paul's brother killed at the Battle of the Bulge), Sylvia (Paul's mother) and Hoy (Paul's father.)